Monday, July 16, 2007

Do Others Tell You What To Do?






Most of us are controlled by others or their opinions, rightly or wrongly:

- they tell us what car to buy ("That car is too expensive /gas guzzling for you.")
- they tell us what to eat ("Those hamburgers will make you fat.")
- they tell us how much tax to pay (" Your tax is due on the seventh, or else".)
- they tell us how much we can borrow ("Your credit is poor, we can only lend you this amount.")
- they tell us how we can dress ("You can't wear a T-shirt in this office, you need a tie.")

Naturally, there are things you need to do when others tell you. It helps make our planet a better place to live:

- We all need to keep to the same side of the road.
< - We all need to respect our neighbor's privacy.
- We shouldn't rob banks.

But when you win lotto, everything changes.
On the one hand it is your money to do what you want.
But on the other, there are more subtle pressures put on you. For example, your family may not mention it, but they may be annoyed that they didn't get a larger share of your winnings.

So you need to be strong... decide what you can give away or share, and stick to it. Many winners have found that by stacking the money away in something concrete, they avoid the guilt that comes with not being able to spend it all on others.

1. Some people buy a new house or make a deposit on one. This means that money is effectively tied up and is not available.

2. Others deposit their winnings in the bank for six months until they decide what to do with it. By that time usually all the arguments are over, and everyone has a fair idea of what to expect from you.

Take a look at your own life... how much of that can you change to be fully in control when you win lotto?

Take back charge of your own life where you can. It starts with one small step, and a bit of money from some lotto wins to build your independence.

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Ken,
Just thought I'd update you since my last
communication - Ken I have continued to win
at EACH and EVERY draw I entered since
purchasing your system. Again I won $50.
this last Saturday, it's like having a part
time job or something!!! To reiterate,
I have won EACH and EVERY draw I entered.
Thanks again, Ken. I can feel the big one
coming and WILL let you know when it does.
Yours truly,
Diane F
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